The popular social commentator reacted to a viral dispute between the couple just days before their scheduled wedding.
Nigerian writer Solomon Buchi has advised TikTok stars Peller and Jarvis to seek marriage counseling before their August 1 wedding. He reacted to a video showing the couple arguing. Buchi warned them against marrying with unresolved anger or expecting sudden personality changes.
On July 28, 2026, fans discussed a heated video featuring TikTok stars Peller and Jarvis. The couple will tie the knot on August 1.
”My baby is coming soon. There’s baby coming.” Peller announced in the clip.
”No baby coming soon, not for this kind of human being. Because you should not even pray about that one yet. There’s no baby.” Jarvis replied sharply.
”Why?” Peller asked her. ”Four weeks, and somebody like you, you’re not organized.” Jarvis pointed out.
”Na true. I’m not organized. Ah. No problem. You not giving baby.” Peller agreed calmly. ”Which baby? Until I start seeing changes.” Jarvis demanded.
”None this You are, not so the Benz. You carry on back” Peller said during the exchange. ”My baby, calm down. You Let me talk” Jarvis pleaded. ”don’t stress me.” Peller concluded.
Solomon Buchi Demands Counseling
The video caught the attention of writer Solomon Buchi. He shared his thoughts on their upcoming union. The commentator expressed deep concern over their lack of readiness.
”Guys, this is organizing baby. I don’t want to sound like a hater. I love early marriages, when young people get married early, but I think that should come with a level of maturity, openness to advice, and mentorship.” Buchi stated clearly.
”My sister got married when she was 22. Her husband, who is my friend, was 25. And they’ve been married for over five years now. I think going to seven years, I believe, and they are very happy. I’ve seen them grow. But it requires people who are open to mentorship, people who are mature, and people who understand the gravity of what it means to build a family.” The writer explained.
”This is not even necessarily to criticize Peller. But marriage is a very serious institution. It’s more than streaming, it’s more than fooling around on social media. It’s more than cameras. It is going to stretch you. So if they are taking this marriage thing seriously, I think they should get some marriage counseling.” Buchi warned the couple.
Warning Against Unresolved Anger
Buchi focused on Jarvis rejecting a car gift in the video. He noted this reveals a major issue for the young bride.
”Honestly, I don’t know what’s going on in that video, but I don’t think weeks to a wedding a woman should be that pissed off that she’s saying you take back a car you got for her. No matter how annoyed she is, that shouldn’t be the response.” Buchi observed.
”I have a lot to say, but I’ll keep it to myself. I genuinely, and God sees my heart, I wish them the best, but this needs to be done with a multitude of good counsel. Because we honestly don’t wanna hear some funny news shortly down the line.” He added further.
”Get marriage counsel, get marriage counsel. Don’t get into marriage with resentment. And if you have unresolved resentment, postpone the marriage or cancel it.” The commentator advised strongly.
Accepting Partners Without Conditions
The writer challenged the idea of marrying for potential. He told fans that people rarely change after exchanging vows. His final message targeted Jarvis directly.
”And the final thing I’m going to say is when you are getting married to someone, you are getting married to who they are and who they will become or who they may never become. If you don’t like what they are right now, who they are right now, don’t get married to them with the hopes of a change because they might never just change. You’re not marrying based on the hope of potential. You must see the proof of who they are.” Buchi stressed to his audience.
”Jarvis needs to accept Peller for who he really is, or just don’t marry him.” He concluded firmly.
