Key Points
- Erica says past recipients return with new money needs. She calls the pattern draining and urges restraint from givers.
- She notes strangers also message with constant urgent requests. They express surprise when she replies yet keep asking.
- Her post triggers debate on boundaries and sustainable charity. Fans suggest budgets and referrals to verified support groups.
BBNaija Erica Nlewedim says some beneficiaries keep coming back for cash. She shared the note on X, calling the cycle disappointing.
According to Erica, even strangers now send messages with fresh emergencies. Many express surprise when she replies, then request more support. Weeks earlier, she considered moving to Ghana after Lekki flooding. Erica considers Ghana relocation reported the idea.
What she said on X
Her X post said past recipients “always find another excuse” to ask. She described the requests as tiring and unfair to givers.
Money requests to celebrities are common during tough times. Public figures often set rules to manage private inboxes. Fans watch those rules closely and share their own advice.
Reactions and wider context
Replies to Erica urged budgets for charity and clear monthly limits. Others asked her to direct strangers to verified support groups. Several warned against public handouts that encourage copycat appeals.
Erica said she gives from a good heart, not for praise. She added the pattern feels like pressure, not real care. She still plans to help but will choose stricter steps.
Other former housemates also share social views and personal rules. Recently, Tochi urges human-first mindset in a post about unity. These updates keep the alumni in daily conversation online.
Erica’s note has renewed a debate on boundaries in giving. Experts say planned charity reduces stress and protects relationships. Smart aid helps people without trapping donors in endless requests.
