Key points
- Williams says she now dates two people. One man. One woman.
- She frames it as growth after a hard split. She wants “normal” partners.
- She hints at past “love bombing” and control. She now seeks balance.
Porsha Williams has shared a frank update on her love life. The reality star says she is seeing two people after her divorce.
She spoke on stage at CultureCon over the weekend. A clip posted by Culture Unfiltered showed the lively chat. The room cheered when she said, “he is nice and she is nice.” She kept both names private.
Williams said she wanted to meet “normal people” this time. She said she is learning to date in a healthier way. She noted past runs with “narcissists,” “love bombing,” and m*nipulation. She did not mention her ex by name.
“The people I’m talking to now are different,” she said. “They challenge me. They ask questions. They don’t let me walk over them.” She added that she is learning to open up and “soften a bit.” In her words, “If I want something different, I have to be different.”
What Porsha Williams said on stage
Her comments painted a picture of change and care. She stressed the need for boundaries and real talk. She wants calm lives and honest plans. She wants to grow as a partner.
Williams also said she had narrowed her choices. The two people in her life match her fresh aims. She likes how they push her to do better. She likes how they listen and stand firm.
Fans in the hall loved the candour. The video drew quick views online. The clip also sparked talks on dating after divorce. Many praised her choice to speak so clear.
Porsha Williams’ split from Simon Guobadia
Williams finalised her divorce in June 2025. The pair had a fast path to marriage. They got engaged in May 2021 after one month. They wed in November of that year.
By February 2024, she filed to end the union. Reports at the time pointed to prenuptial stress. Their split later drew even more press. Guobadia was held by ICE and then removed to Nigeria.
Since then, Williams has leaned into work and home. She co-parents and films and appears at key events. Her new stance on love fits that shift. It is patient, blunt, and firm.
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