Key Points:
- Mide said she turned and saw Dede with Zita. She felt hurt as her clash with Zita still stood.
- Dede said she did not laugh with Zita at all. She said she laughed at Joanna when Joanna turned.
- Mide said she will not force friends to pick sides. Yet she said, “don’t ‘ki ki’ with her while she drags me.”
Week three brought more heat to Biggie’s house. Talks on bonds and shade led to a tense chat. Mide pulled Dede for a quick, clear talk. Her tone stayed calm, but the point cut deep.

“She said something,” Mide began in a soft voice. “I turned and I saw you and Zita laugh.” She said that moment still stung due to past words. “She keeps saying I am boring,” Mide told Dede.
Dede pushed back at once and set her stand. “I wasn’t laughing with Zita,” she said to Mide. “Why would I laugh with Zita at that time?” “I was laughing at Joanna when Joanna turned,” she said.
Why Mide felt let down in that tense moment
Mide said she did not need a full defence. Yet she hoped Dede would not “chill” with her foe. “I don’t expect you to be friends with my enemy.” “This is not the first or second time,” she said.
Dede asked if Mide wanted her to drop Zita. “So the problem is no friendship with her?” she asked. Mide said that was not what she meant. “You can be friends with her,” Mide replied.
Dede clears the air about house links and rules
Dede said they should not pass on each other’s fights. “Exactly, we don’t inherit issues in this house,” she said. She felt lines can stay clear without fresh walls. Dede still asked for room to laugh and breathe.
Mide then drew a firm line on the timing. “In the middle of her saying Mide is boring, no.” “I don’t expect to see you ‘ki ki ing’ with her,” she said. Dede then asked a short, sharp question: “Was it not a game?”
What this clash means for house ties this week
The chat showed how fast small acts can spark doubts. Mide wants respect when shade flies in real time. Dede wants free links and no forced bad blood. Fans will watch if the pair now heal or drift.
Earlier, we wrote how housemates tagged Mide “boring.” That story set the stage for this new clash. Now this talk adds weight to that first claim. More turns may come before the next live show.





