Key points:
- Dede says she stays close when no feelings exist. She keeps bonds light to avoid pain.
- She adds she flees once talk turns deep or romantic. She then keeps her space for peace of mind.
- Koyin listens and agrees in short replies. He says he gets her and understands.
Dede laid it bare in a calm chat. She told Koyin why their link feels smooth. There is no crush in the mix. So, they flow with ease.

She then spoke on what scares her most. She hates talks on deep love or strong bonds. Those chats make her pull back at once. She leaves so her mind stays clear.
Dede sets clear bounds on heart talk
Dede looked straight and kept her tone firm. “Let me be 100% with you,” she said. “We are close since there is no feelings here.” She added she goes “off and on” once chats turn warm.
She did not hide her fear at all. “I am 100% scared of emotional conversations,” she said. “At that time I just want to move far away.” The room stayed still as she spoke.
Koyin listens, agrees, and keeps it cool
Koyin kept his lines brief and calm. He said, “yeah, I know.” Later, he added, “I understand.” That tone showed care without fresh sparks.
Their talk set the line for both friends. They will gist and laugh, yet keep hearts safe. No tease. No hints.
Earlier context on Dede, Koyin and links
This view fits Dede’s past words in the house. She once spoke on her light bond with Jason and why Koyin’s “grumpy” side draws her, yet she would not pick one. You can read that full chat here on ValidUpdates: BBNaija 10: Dede explains feelings for Jason and Koyin.
Fans have also seen Dede speak on trust and closeness in other clips this week. In one piece, she owned up to “issues” with long-term bonds after a tense talk with Kola.
More Story: For more house tea on this triangle, see our coverage of Imisi grilling Kola over a drunk kiss as she warned Dede could feel hurt.





