In a post shared by Nollywood actor, Mofe Duncan, he let his fans and followers know that “keeping a relationship private and keeping a relationship secret” is a two different things.
The award winning actor however explains in the comment section of his post when a follower asked him the difference between the two. Mofe responded;
“Keeping it PRIVATE (People dont have to know the daily happenings of your relationship, be it good or bad… it ain’t Keeping Up With The Kardashians.) • Keeping it SECRET (Hiding the fact you’re in a relationship all together, this fact can be public knowledge).”
What the above assertion means is that a private relationship is more safe to the public than a secret one. A private relationship is one where both parties keep their cool whether good or bad while secret is said to be the one where both parties hide the fact that they’re in relationship and that will result to it unknowingly going public.
However, some followers agreed with the explanation Mofe gave in the comment and added their own explanation using that same fact.
Some of them read below;
lucylosculate commented
“Secret relationship ain’t relationship cause everything you do is known only to the two of u, even u can be a “sister or brother” to that person, private is the best u keep stuffs to yourselves, your moves and actions ain’t known yet people know u are dating.”
caroline2844 commented
“Keeping your relationship private, allows the relationship to nurture and develop without outside interference. Every moment together belongs to just the two of you. Family and close trusted friends know about it, as you are proud to be with the person you love. Secret, is when you don’t want anyone else to know, not even those close to you. Why is this, what are you hiding. This type of relationship is normally the ones where cheating is involved. If you are in a relationship that is being kept a secret, ask yourself why.”
edithfunky commented
“Absolutely true, if you are in a secret relationship, you are definitely dating yourself”
kingizuu commented
“Keeping relationship secret is always fishy to me, people do that so they can double date & when they ain’t proud of you; keeping relationship private is better, people know who you are dating but they don’t know everyday details!”
Meanwhile, one particular follower got confused with what true love and satisfying love is all about, but Mofe clarifies it by stating that we shouldn’t look for true love rather, a satisfying love. True love he said, comes when both parties experience satisfying love.
lassorswayne commented
“@mofeduncan ryt true love you act Stupid but satisfying love you have the courage to face all the consquences 2gether…thankyou so much mof 4 the advice…probably when i come to Nigeria by God’s grace hope to learn more 4rm you.”
mofeduncan responded
“@lassorswayne no no dont be blinded by love, and dont look for true love, look for satisfying love. True love comes from when both parties experience satisfying love.”
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