Key Points
- Facebook commentator claims Sabinus rushed marriage and secret quiet wedding. He alleges wife left after relocating to the United Kingdom.
- He lists signs like quick court marriage, visa plans and money focus. Post urges men to slow down and study partners well.
- Writer says men abroad should avoid sending new wives overseas. He gives personal opinions, not legal advice or proven facts.
A Facebook writer has weighed in on rumours about comedian Sabinus (Emmanuel Chukwuemeka Ejekwu). He used the viral story to warn Nigerian men about rushed marriages. The post has spread fast across chats as people debate his views.
In the long note, the commentator alleged that Sabinus sponsored his wife’s move abroad. He also claimed she later filed for divorce abroad, a claim yet unverified. Neither Sabinus nor any court record has publicly confirmed these allegations.
Commentator lists his warning signs
From there, the writer turned his post into a lesson for other men. He said many men rush choices because love feels sweet and urgent at first. A recent Noble Igwe rejects relocation abroad feature on ValidUpdates carried a similar message.
One of his main points was fear of quick court weddings. He argued a partner who insists on a quiet indoor wedding may plan an easy exit. He linked this to shame or secret plans rather than simple love for privacy.
Money was another core theme in the viral message to men. The writer warned that strong push for financial freedom could signal future trouble. He urged men to note demands for inclusion on property papers or business shares.
Advice to men at home and abroad
The Facebook post also focused on how couples handle life across borders. He told men living abroad to leave new wives in Nigeria for some years. During that time, he said, visits and video calls should test real character.
He further warned against sending wives abroad alone just to give birth. Instead, he urged men to use scarce funds on their own visas first. He also spoke about DNA tests, saying men should confirm paternity after birth.
Many readers may agree with some fears he raised about trust and money. Yet traits like hard work or interest in savings do not always mean a plan to leave. Experts often advise couples to talk early about goals, roles and shared plans.
The issues he raised touch on law, faith, family pressure and migration. People who fear being used can seek counsel from elders, lawyers or trusted counsellors before big steps. That kind of support may give clearer eyes than social media rants alone.
The long note echoed a wider fear that travel can strain trust in families. Current debates, like a Senate passport ban plan, show how travel rules shape such talks. The writer used that same worry to argue for slow, careful steps in love.
His views remain personal opinion, not a universal rule for every marriage.
