Key points
- Wanneka says her husband often gets bold DMs from women. She found this one funny.
- The lady begged Mustapha to marry her secretly as second wife. She said the wife must not know.
- Wanneka joked that he is “too young” to marry her. Yet strangers want him.
Lagos entrepreneur Wanneka (Nwanneka Nkumah) has shared a bold DM sent to her husband, Mustapha. A female fan begged him to marry her as a second wife and asked that Wanneka must not see it.

She posted the screenshot on Instagram Stories during the week. The admirer warned that the wife would “kpai” her if the message leaked.
How the DM came in
The businesswoman said her husband receives many similar messages from women online. She joked about it while sharing it, like in Davido gifts 20 fans iPhones.
In the DM, the lady pleaded with Mustapha to add her quietly. She said she truly liked him. She also begged him to hide her name from his wife.
The admirer even wrote that Wanneka must not see the chat at all. She feared the entrepreneur’s reaction. She still pushed her luck and made the request.
Her playful response
Reacting, Wanneka laughed that her husband was “too young” to marry her. Yet the same man was old enough to take a second wife, she teased. She compared it with Burna Boy religion view story.
She promised to cover the admirer’s name “for sanity”. She then reminded her followers that Mustapha is Muslim. So, in theory, he could even marry four wives.
Still, she asked the lady if she could truly live with her as a co-wife. She warned her to think well before sending such DMs. She called people like that “crazy”.
According to her, Mustapha gets many of those messages daily. Most of them are from women who like the couple online. This one stood out because of the confidence.
Wanneka also said her friends later saw the DM. That made it funnier for her. She told the admirer to try again next time.
For the entrepreneur, the episode showed how open people can be online. It also showed how public couples get bold requests. She chose to laugh it off instead of getting angry.
See screenshot below.






