Key points:
- Dede says she can win any crush if she wants. She adds that self-belief is not pride.
- Kola doubts her claim and calls it a different case. He says she is not in a set pair.
- The talk ends with Dede’s blunt line, “I have issues.” Kola replies with one word, “Clearly.”
Dede and Kola had a tense heart-to-heart. It came after a packed live show. Fans still buzzed from the twists and exits. Yet the pair chose to lay cards on the table.
Dede led with bold words and calm poise. “If I want anyone here, I have a chance,” she said. She added, “Self belief is not pride at times.” The room felt still as she spoke.
Dede says choice and chance guide her moves
She kept her point clear and short. “I have a chance,” she told Kola again. “If I start to talk and they say no, I move on.” She stressed that life goes on either way.
Dede then urged Kola to hear her out. “Please let me know when you are done,” she said. “I want you to speak. I don’t want to cut you.”
Kola pushes back on Dede’s bold stance
Kola said he heard her but did not agree. “I get you,” he said, “but you are not in a pair.” He felt the case was not the same. “I feel it is a different story,” he added.
He tried to slow the chat with a sigh. “Okay, Dedeeee,” he said with a small whistle. He told her she wanted her own truth. He asked her to face what felt real.
The talk turns raw with one firm admission
Dede stood her ground and spoke her mind. “You just want what you think is true,” she said. “I am telling you who I am,” she added. “Why would you doubt me on that?”
Then she said the line that hit hard. “I just have commitment issues,” Dede confessed. Kola did not fight that last point. He simply said, “Clearly.”
Meanwhile, the night’s heat still hung in the air. The live show had stirred nerves and views. Evictions set new stakes and shook key links. House talk since then has felt sharp and frank.
Related: Catch up on the shock exit that set tongues wagging in the house in our piece on Otega’s eviction — it shaped the mood for this chat and more. Read it here: BBNaija 10: Otega faces shock eviction as third housemate to leave.
