Key Points
- Bolaji defended her choice after fans raised strong concerns. She said her husband must keep working if needed.
- The actor Daniel Etim-Effiong addressed fans after the clip went viral. He said prayer helps him prepare for kissing scenes.
- The exchange reignited debate over on-screen intimacy in Nigeria. Many fans used social media to voice strong views.
Actress Bolaji Ogunmola sarcastically says she would not let her husband kiss on screen. She posted a blunt reply after a fan asked about the viral clip.

A clip showed Bolaji kissing actor Daniel Etim-Effiong in a scene. She later promised softer on-screen expressions after fan complaint on her timeline.
Reaction online
Fans quickly split into camps after the clip started trending online. Some called the scene too intimate for a married actor to do. Others defended the pair as professionals doing their job well.
Bolaji replied directly to a social post that asked the question. Her answer was blunt and left little room for debate. She said her husband must choose his job over a scene request.
The actor in the clip, Daniel Etim-Effiong, also replied to fans. He told followers that prayer helps him stay focused on set work. His short message aimed to calm some of the heated online talk.
The debate has pushed other celebrities to weigh in with views. Many posts pointed to past scenes and how actors perform their craft. A common thread is trust between actors and their spouses off-screen.
Bolaji’s wider comments followed a separate note about future on-set tone. She had earlier promised gentler scenes in a public post. More details appear in the Etim-Effiong praying before viral kiss piece.
That ValidUpdates article quoted the actor on prayer and craft. It said he prays to stay calm before intimate scenes on set. The write-up gave context to why actors sometimes accept tough scenes.
Industry voices said the conversation should focus on consent for actors. They argued public debate can affect actors’ private lives and work. Others warned against shaming actors for doing their normal job duties.
The topic also sparked broader chat about what audiences expect from film. Some said social media can turn small scenes into large controversies. Others asked for clearer on-set rules and better spouse support for actors.
Bolaji and Etim-Effiong kept the exchange calm and brief online. Neither posted long replies after their initial public statements online. The matter settled down as fans debated and then moved on.
The short row shows how social reaction can shape actor choices. Bolaji says she values her family’s income over on-screen kissing scenes. Both actors now appear focused on work and moving past the talk.






