Key Points:
- Ebuka labels Mensan “emotional” and calls Kola “vulnerable.” Both housemates accept those tags with calm words.
- Mensan says emotion shows love and a good home. He proudly claims his soft side in plain words.
- Kola says guys mock him for his bond with Dede. He insists he stayed true and kept one path.
Kola and Mensan held a frank chat by the wall. The mood was calm, yet the words were firm. Ebuka’s live note still rang in both minds. The pair chose to speak with care and grace.

Mensan went first and set a warm tone. He said he felt fine with the “emotional” tag. He also said he was proud of that tag. Kola nodded and said he felt the same way too.
Mensan links emotion to love and home
Mensan gave a short, deep take on feelings and love. “I am emotional, and I am proud,” he said. He then said love at home grows that soft side. “If you weren’t raised with love, you won’t feel,” he added.
He drew a stark line to show his point. “You can’t ask an assassin to feel,” he said. The words hit hard, yet the room stayed calm. Kola watched and kept a slow, firm nod. For wider context, read Imisi’s “shine without Kola” remark. That moment shaped much talk after the live show.
Kola clears the air on the Dede bond
Kola spoke on why the mockery still hurt him today. “I am not a ‘gra gra’ guy,” he began. “I like peace, not wahala,” he said with ease. He then asked if he had “messed up” with Dede.
Mensan told him no, he had done nothing wrong. “You liked her and showed it, and that’s fine,” he said. He added that Dede’s acts showed clear signs of care. “If she dislikes you, she won’t stay close,” he noted.
Kola then said the guys kept yabbing him all week. He felt they failed to see the private moments. “She let me in her space, in private,” he said. “I could tell she still wanted me near,” he added.
He also flagged a line that stuck in his head. “Koyin said he won’t chase who all the guys chase,” Kola said. He felt that claim did not fit the facts. He said he picked one girl and stayed the whole time.
Kola stressed he kept his word through the long run. “I never told any girl I liked her,” he said. “I stuck with one person and came true,” he added. “So why the mockery?” he asked with a small sigh. For backstory, see Kola’s tense late-night chat with Dede. It shows how both housemates weighed that bond.
Meanwhile, the pair closed with soft words and calm looks. Mensan backed Kola and praised his steady heart. Kola thanked him and kept his voice low and cool. The talk ended, and both men seemed at peace.





