Key Points:
- Mide told Dede that Kola spoke with Biggie about feeling mocked.
- Dede insisted she only wants friendship and fun, not emotional stress.
- She claimed Kola’s pressure makes her uncomfortable in the house.
Tension rose in the Big Brother Naija 10/10 house after Dede expressed frustration over Kola’s emotional expectations. She said she had made it clear that she has a boyfriend but felt uncomfortable with Kola’s constant focus on her.
This came after Mide shared that Kola had a chat with Biggie. During that talk, Kola said he felt like he was being made to look like a fool. Mide admitted that he was told not to share the details but felt Dede should be aware.
Mide advises caution over Kola’s emotions
Mide explained that Kola was deeply affected by Dede’s close talks with Koyin. He said Kola viewed the way people in the house spoke about him as troubling. “He said every single person is saying the same thing in here, now imagine what they are saying outside,” Mide told Dede.
He further warned that Kola might carry that same hurt outside the house. “Look at it from both sides because that’s what it’s giving,” he added. Mide stressed that Dede should be careful to avoid being seen as the villain in Kola’s story.
Dede: “I don’t want any commitment”
In her response, Dede said she never promised Kola anything more than friendship. She said their chats were always too serious and focused only on his emotions. “It’s never about me or anything,” she said.
Dede also revealed she preferred light talks and fun. “I just want to gist and laugh, because I don’t want any commitment with anybody,” she told Mide.
She added that she had made her stance known to all housemates. “I told every single person in this house that I have a boyfriend,” she said firmly.
“Why is he watching me?”
Dede grew more upset as the talk went on. Mide said Kola felt hurt seeing her spend hours talking to others while he watched from a distance.
“He feels that inside here, you need someone to lean on and be around,” Mide told her. Dede was stunned by Kola’s silent actions. “Why is he watching me?” she asked.
This comes shortly after Faith voiced similar emotional frustration when he told Otega he felt slighted by Sultana allowing Jason sleep in his spot — a moment that stirred debates around mind games and bed space drama.
