Key points:
- Dede says she fears asking how Kola feels. She admits the reply may hurt or change her mood.
- Mide advises care and predicts she may “go off.” The friend urges patience while the storm calms down.
- Tension with a female housemate also worries Dede. She feels bad vibes, silence, and needless “drag.”
Dede opened up in a soft, tense chat with Mide. She said, “I’m scared to ask how he feels.” The fear sits deep and real in her chest. A plain reply could shake her calm and routine.
Mide kept the talk warm and very clear. “He would tell you how he feels,” she said. However, she warned that truth may push Dede away. “If you get that answer, you’ll want to go off.”
Dede avoids the talk to keep her heart safe
The fear sits in her mind both day and night. She said, “Yeah, I would go off,” if she asked. So she plans to keep some space and peace. “I don’t want to know what is going on.”
At the time, Dede pushed back at any pressure. She added a blunt line for any extra push. “Get the f#ck out of my face,” she said. The point was firm, short, and very clear.
Later on, she leaned on hope and on time. “God’s time is the best,” she told Mide. “I’m going to drag it sha,” she added with calm. The truth, she believes, will show soon enough.
Mide senses bad energy and a cold wall
Mide then raised a new point on house vibes. She said one girl now acts silent toward Dede. “I understand when the energy is not pure,” she said. That cold air keeps the room tight and sore.
Dede agreed that things now feel tense and strange. She cannot tell when the shift first began. Still, she now sees stress and sharp push back. “They are dragging me on the ground,” she said.
Dede rejects ‘triangle’ noise and calls feud needless
People chase people’s boyfriends and girlfriends each week. Meanwhile, she says she only asks some to step back. That simple move still stirs noise and hot takes. “Everybody wants or doesn’t want to touch me,” she sighed.
The whole fuss makes no sense to her mind. She says the girl is the least of her problems. “Where do I even start with this one now?” she asked. For now, Dede chooses calm and holds her ground.
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