Key Points:
- Lil Kesh reveals he’s been single for a long time and prefers it that way
- Says he’s not mentally ready for marriage or fatherhood yet
- Believes many marriages are unhappy and won’t rush into one just to please anyone
Lil Kesh says he’s fine being single
Nigerian singer Lil Kesh has made it clear that he’s not in a relationship and is totally okay with it. The former YBNL signee opened up about his dating life and why marriage isn’t on his mind right now.
He said, “I’m currently single. I have been single for a long time.” According to him, he left his last relationship because it was holding him back. “I broke up with my last girlfriend because I figured out that I could do better on my own,” he explained.
“I want peace, not pressure”
Kesh shared that his career and personal growth were more important at the time, so he chose to focus on himself. Since then, he hasn’t met anyone who makes him want to try again.
“It would be nice to find someone who would make me compromise,” he admitted. “But now, I’m not intentional about dating because if I’m dating you, I will have to make time for you.”
He also mentioned that at 31, his parents are not pushing him to get married. “Luckily, my parents are not pressuring me to get married. They have made peace with the fact that I am different,” he said.
“I don’t believe in marriage right now”
When it comes to marriage, Lil Kesh said he’s not ready. He believes many marriages today are not happy and he doesn’t want to end up in that kind of situation.
“Marriage? Maybe, later. But for now, I’m not of that mindset,” he said. “I’m also not going to intentionally make anyone my baby mama. I am not going to ‘wife’ anybody anytime soon either.”
He made it clear that his choice isn’t about wanting freedom or being a playboy. “It’s not like I don’t want to get married because I want to be free or be a playboy, I just don’t believe in marriage,” he said. “They don’t work. Have you seen the rate of divorces?”
Still, he knows there are happy homes out there. But for now, he doesn’t think he can offer that kind of peace to someone else. “I want a happy home and I don’t feel like I can do that yet,” he said. “And I’m not going to jeopardise any person’s happiness just because I have to get married.”
