Key Points:
- Former Big Brother Naija star Frodd revealed he suffered physical abuse from multiple house helps between ages 5-9, with only his baby-stage nanny treating him kindly.
- Frodd explained he could not tell his parents about the abuse because they failed to create a safe environment for sharing such sensitive issues.
- The reality star urged parents to watch for warning signs when children show unusual behaviour around adult caregivers and to build better communication with their children.
Former Big Brother Naija star Chukwuemeka Okoye has shared a deeply personal story about his childhood. The reality TV personality, known as Frodd, revealed that different house helps abused him when he was young.
Frodd told his followers on social media that the abuse happened from age five to nine. He said different house workers in his family home hurt him during those years. Only one house help, called Aunty Chinenye, did not harm him. She was the lady who cared for him as a baby.
The 32-year-old also said a neighbour abused him during the same time. Frodd explained that he could not tell his parents what was happening. He said his mum and dad did not create a safe space for him to share his problems.
Speaking Out After Recent Controversies
Frodd decided to share his story after another celebrity made shocking statements. Controversial entertainer Speed Darlington recently admitted to harming a 15-year-old girl. Speed Darlington later said his confession was just a joke. However, his words upset many people across Nigeria.
This incident pushed Frodd to speak about his own experiences. He wanted to help other children who might be going through similar situations. Frodd believes that sharing his story will help parents understand the dangers their children face.
Warning Signs Parents Should Watch
The reality star gave important advice to parents on his social media page. He told them to watch how their children behave around older people. Frodd said parents should pay special attention when children seem scared or uncomfortable around certain adults.
He explained that children often show changes in behaviour when something is wrong. Some children might become very quiet around certain people. Others might refuse to be alone with specific adults. These signs could mean that someone is hurting the child.
Frodd also said that some children might act in ways that seem strange to their parents. They might become too friendly with adults or show knowledge about things they should not know. These behaviours can also be warning signs that something is wrong.
Creating Safe Spaces for Children
The former Big Brother contestant stressed the importance of good communication between parents and children. He said many parents do not create the right environment for their children to share problems. This silence can allow abuse to continue for years.
Frodd urged parents to build trust with their children from an early age. He said children need to feel safe when talking to their parents about difficult topics. Parents should listen without getting angry or blaming the child.
The reality star also advised parents to check on their house helps more carefully. He said families should ask questions about the people they hire to care for their children. Background checks and references become very important when choosing who to trust with young ones.
Frodd’s brave decision to share his story has started important conversations online. Many Nigerians have praised him for speaking out about such a difficult topic. Child protection experts say that stories like his help break the silence around abuse.
The former housemate hopes his words will protect other children from similar experiences. He wants parents to take action before it becomes too late for their own children.
