- The incident involving Chef Derin and his ex-girlfriend’s friend highlights the importance of being mindful of one’s actions and their potential impact on others, especially in the age of social media.
- It is essential to recognize the impact of toxic relationships and the importance of setting healthy boundaries to minimize the risk of causing harm to oneself or others.
- The incident serves as a reminder of the importance of treating others with respect and empathy, both online and offline, and prioritizing the well-being of oneself and others while engaging in personal relationships.
Chef Derin, the partner of Tsakute Ladi Jonah, a former participant in the popular reality show Big Brother Naija, has responded to a leaked chat between him, and a woman with whom he had an intimate relationship. Derin’s response comes after his ex-girlfriend’s friend, Max, called him out on social media for breaking up with his ex-girlfriend in favor of Saskay.
In her statement, Max expressed her displeasure with Derin, stating that he had used and discarded her friend in favor of Saskay. Derin, in his response, sought to clarify the events leading up to his breakup with his ex-girlfriend and also mentioned that he had been the target of harassment from several other women since his separation.
Derin went on to say that he had severed all ties with these women in October of 2023, which was also the period during which he and Saskay met and began their relationship. He categorically denied that the screenshots of his conversation with the woman in circulation were fake.
This incident underscores the importance of being mindful of one’s actions and their potential impact on others, particularly in the age of social media. It is important to exercise discretion and sensitivity when engaging in personal relationships, both online and offline, to minimize the risk of causing harm to oneself or others.
While it is unclear who leaked the conversation between Saskay and the woman, it is evident that the incident has caused significant controversy. This situation highlights the need for individuals to be cautious when engaging in personal relationships and to be mindful of the potential implications of their actions, particularly in the age of social media where information can be easily disseminated and shared.
Furthermore, it is essential to recognize the impact of toxic relationships and the importance of setting healthy boundaries. In this instance, it appears that Derin’s previous relationship was not working out, and he decided to end it. While it is understandable that his ex-girlfriend’s friend is upset, it is crucial to respect Derin’s decision and to recognize that he has the right to pursue a relationship that makes him happy.
Ultimately, this incident serves as a reminder of the importance of treating others with respect and empathy, both online and offline. It is essential to approach personal relationships with care and consideration, to act with integrity, and to prioritize the well-being of oneself and others.
Derin wrote: “Never been the type to put my business online or respond to trolls but since you guys have decided to go low I’d go lower. I Never dumped any one and I can tell you for a fact that all those chats are fake. Sometime last year may I had a serious issue with my ex.
“Same period Oreofe reached out to me via Twitter. We became friends, she noticed I was battling depression because I wasn’t over my ex and we were trying to work things. She created a burner account on snap and iG.
“Only to tell me all sort of things about her, this is someone she has never met before or seen Her entire life. She manipulated me Into believing she has moved on and even went as far as telling me the new guy she was dating knowing fully well how vulnerable I am.
“That same period I met @_0T__ she also stood there for me during my heart break. Oreofe was feeding me with false information for 3 months because she wanted to date me. Telling me things to damage me And at the same time she gives me a shoulder to cry on.
“When everything unfolded around October I had to cut her off. Same period I met saskay and we started talking. She’s very much aware of everything I had gone through. Ever since then Oreofe & her friends has been a roll to drag me down the dirt.
“I even had to call my ex Funmi to apologize becausel hated her for months because I felt like didn’t deserve to be treated that way. It’s actually way too deeper than this, but ljust need y’all to know I respect my girlfriend so much and her brand that’s why I’m responding.”
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