Big Brother Naija season 8 Housemate and former Level Up reality television star Doyinsola David has told her co-housemate Ilebaye Odiniya that her excessive sociability brings her so much disrespect from colleagues in the Biggie’s All Stars House.
Doyin made this clear to Ilebaye on Friday morning, Day 5 of the show during their conversation, following an embarrassment from Tolanibaj after Ilebaye was seen laying on Neo’s bed.
Tolanibaj sighted Ilebaye on Neo’s bed and chose to chase her out while slut-shaming her. TBaj accused Ilebaye of jumping from one male Housemate to the other without self-control.
After the incident, Doyin took Ilebaye, who was crying about TBaj’s insult, to a corner and started advising her. She told Ilebaye that TBaj’s embarrassment came as a result of her over-friendliness.
“Respect yourself so people can respect you and not continuously disrespect you. There’s a way you carry yourself and people Wunt feel the need to talk to you anyhow,” Doyin tells Ilebaye.
“Cross is your friend, Kidd is your friend, if they wanna spend a night with you, let them come to your bed,” Doyin advised. Ilebaye replied, “The only bed I’ve been to and slept on is Cross’s bed.”
“I feel like the over-friendliness is an issue, for example, during the games, Neo screamed at you publicly and you still followed him to his bed,” Doyin pointed out.
“With the words people said to you between yesterday and today, you should sit back and re-evaluate. Try to carry yourself more respectfully,” Doyin suggested.
Ilebaye reiterates, “I dont take life so seriously.” Doyin divulged, “In the process of you not taking life seriously, you could loose alot cuz you’re now a brand.”
She added, “What happened after the pool party, I don’t wanna mention it, but it shouldn’t have happened, if they respect you, it wouldn’t have happened.”
Explaining further, Ilebaye told Doyin that she doesn’t like staying alone, that’s more reason she likes going to stay on someone’s bed.
“And I told you the reason i stay on your bed is because i don’t like staying alone and when I noticed Kiddwaya had a boner, I left and I i told you.”
Doyin reiterated, “hat I’m saying you have to carry your self with some respect.” “So do you want me to go back to the ilebaye i was?” Ilebaye asked. Doyin replied, “I didn’t say you should go back to the quiet Ilebaye.”
“I’m not quiet, I’m very aggressive,” Ilebaye divulged. Doyin added, “I’m just asking you to respect yourself.” Ilebaye regurgitates, “I’m respecting, that’s what I’m saying, so me being quiet is making people take me for granted.”
Doyin sighs and said, “This is so sad, cuz I’m tryna tell you something and you’re conveniently missing the point.”
Recall that after the Thursday night pool party, All Stars Housemates were involved in a game among themselves. Following the game, Ilebaye followed Neo to his bed, leading to the chastisement from Tolanibaj.
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