Nigerian motivational speaker and life coach Solomon Buchi shares some revelation and advice to African women who are too submissive to their husbands.
Solomon puts it that submission in love or relationships between two consenting adults in marriage is a scam. It’s irrational to expect someone to give you their will and be at your control.
He however proved that mutual respect, accountability and service are what he believes work when submission isn’t in place.
Buchi continues that some men would always want that demigod feelings over women which makes women rather choose to lose themselves than lose their marriage or relationships.
He therefore advised that the word “submission” should be scrapped out of any relationship and women should ensure to ask a man what his understanding of submission in marriage is before engaging in any relationship or marriage.
His tweets read:
Solomon Buchi (@Solomon_Buchi) Tweeted:
“Submission in love relationships between two consenting adults is a scam. It’s so irrational because to expect someone to give you their will and be at your control, cos that’s what submission means. Instead I believe in mutual respect, accountability and service.”
Solomon Buchi (@Solomon_Buchi) Tweeted:
“Just ask men who believe in submission for pragmatic examples about how women should be submissive. It’s basically respect, service, accountability. But they still find a way to make it look mysterious cos they want some demigod feeling that doesn’t make sense.”
Solomon Buchi (@Solomon_Buchi) Tweeted:
”Scrap the word “submission” and some men won’t fancy marriage anymore because it’s a way to control and exercise authority over a woman. But in reality, you don’t need submission in marriage when it’s not master-slave relationship.”
Solomon Buchi (@Solomon_Buchi) Tweeted:
“Women, ensure to ask a man who his understanding of submission in marriage is before you enter one chance. You might think that he has sense, you’ll be shocked. Many of these men just want someone to lord over; they want somewhere to make orders. Be woke.”
Solomon Buchi (@Solomon_Buchi) Tweeted:
“The reason many African women are suffering in marriage is because they are submissive. They are submissive to the point that they rather lose themselves than lose their marriage; they prioritize their husband’s joy over theirs every day. Submission makes a woman dumb.”
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